Last week was my 2024 Holiday Adventure. I Left home at 5AM to catch my morning flight to Newark, New Jersey. My work friend Lynette brought me to the airport.
The Hindu temple of BAPS Swaminarayan Akshardham in Windsor, NJ.
New Jersey. The two and a half hour United Airlines direct flight was smooth. Michelle picked me up as soon as I found my exit from Liberty/Newark Airport. So much has changed; the airport was fully renovated- I was telling Michelle that I have not been here for two decades. When we found our way out, we met Aura at Max’s in Jersey City. We pigged out with Filipino food- Crispy Pata, Chicken Sisig, Pinakbet, and Sisig na Tofu with unlimited rice. With these two, catching up seems to be never ending even though I just saw them this past July when they visited me and Bob in Florida.
My New Jersey Crew. Top: celebrating Badge’s birthday at a Korean Hotpot
L-R Michelle, Aura and I pigging out at Max’s; the three of us at the temple.
We drove to Aura’s apartment briefly to unpack my luggage and refresh. Then we headed out to go and see the Hindu Temple in Windsor. After almost two hours in a busy friday at NJ turn pike we arrived at BAPS Swaminarayan Akshardham. This is more than what I expected. From its facade to its interior to the main temple, the craftsmanship was truly intricate. We spent more than an hour exploring its ground and taking photos while braving the cold (27F) at the same time. Luckily it was during sunset, so we got to see it lit up too. The main temple is not open to the public though.
When we thought we covered all, we went back to Jersey City and met with Aura’s family and friends to celebrate her husband’s birthday in a Korean Hotpot. Perfect to end a cold windy night.
New York City. After spending time with Aura and Michelle, I took the path train in Journal Square to Penn station to meet Jena and David the following day. Once all of us were finally together, we checked in at Marriott Hotel in Long Island City in Queens; our official lodging for the next two nights. We unpacked, rested and refreshed for a couple of hours then went back out to enjoy the city. We went straight to Rockefeller Center in 5th Avenue of course to see the tree. Boy it was packed! Took some photos and off we went to St Patrick’s to say our little prayers. Dave made an online reservation at Lodi, an Italian restaurant right at the Rockefeller that overlooks the tree; and while waiting for 530PM, we continued walking and sight-seeing. We checked out the Christmas decors at Avenue of the Americas and Radio City. With so many people around doing the same thing, and all the dazzling lights all over, I can truly feel the spirit of the upcoming holidays.
The tree at the Rockefeller Center in New York City. Taken at 5AM in the morning to avoid tthe crowd.
The three of us having fun times in NYC.
Top L-R Having posh dinner at Lodi; and Ramen at lunch time the next day;
Bottom L-R: enjoying the lights at Radio City, waiting for our F train😂
We headed to the restaurant after we made one big loop between 5th and 6tth avenues. Lodi is an upscale dining; boujee I will describe it. David made a great choice for this one. The food (from appetizers that we ordered to our main courses- I got the Tasmanian Trout and Beets with Hollandaise sauce), the ambience, and the personality of our server, made it such a great dinner for the three of us. Bonus that we saw Keegan Michael Kay, an actor who’s dining opposite our table.
When we were done, we headed to Eugene O’Neill Theatre to watch the Book of Mormon- a play Jena selected for us to watch this holiday. Neither one of us had seen the play so it was really great to share together the fun. The play is a satire; it made us laugh mostly throughout as we watch the story unravel. Kudos to Jena too, with the seats she selected- Row J8 in the orchestra, we have the perfect view of all the actors and actresses.
After the play, we did a short sightseeing again then to the train station to our hotel. Then we called the night.
The Louis Vuitton Shop in 5th Avenue in New York City
I woke up early on Sunday and went to Manhattan to take photos again of the less crowded Rockefeller Center; last night was fun- but too much people that ruined some of my shots I have in mind. Then walk around 6th Avenue and circled back to 5th to see the stores’ displays. One thing that caught my attention was the Louis Vuitton store- The entire store was dressed and decorated to giant suitcases. When I was done, I went back to the hotel; ate the free breakfast with David while Jena still sound asleep; and I went back to sleep again too.
It was around 11 when we decided that we will go to Korea Town in 34th Street for lunch. A nice warm ramen for cold and drafty day sounded good. That was what we had. Then walked around Bryant Park and met with Lucia (another friend of mine) briefly at Royce Shop; caught up, bought some chocolates and finally brought David to Grand Central station as he goes back to CT. Meanwhile Jena went to Queens to get our Filipino food. I on the other hand, met back with Lucia to further catch up. When we were done, I headed back to the hotel where Jena was waiting.
I was tempted to go out some more but rain started pouring in so we decided to stay and ate dinner instead and flipped channels ‘til we bortttht passed out.
The rain continued the following day. And as much as I wanted to walk around some place more to take photos, the weather wasn’t just cooperating at all so I decided I will start getting ready to make my trip to CT.
Connecticut. The rides with Metro Train from new york to anywhere in CT always give me nostalgia from my early days in the US. I have ridden this train probably more than a thousand times but it never gets old. This time it was extra special- I got off in New Haven, my old hub to travel to Princeton, MA. I was supposed to take an Uber from here to Tweed/New Haven Airport but didn’t realize that there was no Uber that drops off passengers to the airport so I took a cab instead. Once at the airport I picked my car rental up and headed to Wallingford for my overnight stay at David’s.
The Lobster Trap Christmas Tree in Stonington, Connecticut.
My original plan was to drive straight to Stonington; I told Dave about this- that I really wanted to see the lobster trap tree. The rain and the early darkness during winter made me not want to drive for another hour and a half so I will be staying over instead. To my surprise, David said let’s go. So we’re off to see the tree! 🤗
The lobster trap tree did not disappoint. With the rain, I managed to take some photos of it while Dave was holding the umbrella. It was a challenge since there were few people around, but sometimes they make a good inclusion in the composition, and they did in this particular situation😉. When done, we briefly stopped by at the Dog Watch Cafe for dinner then we headed home, spent sometime with my dog friend Tofu and called it a night.
The Christmas Tree in one of the rooms at The Breakers in Newport, Rhode Island.
Rhode Island. I left David’s house around nine in the morning. The drive to Newport was partly reminiscing of my drives at I-95 to Cape Cod circa 2016-17 when I go home from work in New Haven. Some things didn’t change. I got to my hotel at Marriott Hotel by the Marina and checked in. Then proceeded right away to my mission to see the mansions- The Breakers and the Marble House. I have been to the Newport Mansions multiple times. But this is the first time I visited them during the holiday. I wanted to see them this time of the year so I could capture them with the Christmas decorations. I always wanted to, but never got the opportunity🤷. The first one I set foot on was The Breakers. I am always impressed by the opulence of this place. The grandiose of its facade, the main dining and all the rooms from both up and downstairs…Magnificent! Each room was fabulously decorated. I didn’t waste anytime, I made it sure that I was taking multiple photos of each room. I was glad that I did this. The Christmas decors really added a grander effect.
I took a break from seeing the second mansion. Instead I took a short walk of the cliff at the coast of the mansions, then have lunch at the Red Parrot where I warmed myself with their Lobster Bisque and had a taste of their Lobster Roll. When my stomach was full, I drove and see Sachuest Point National Wildlife Refuge. I didn’t see any animals, but glad I did go as I see the wildlife part of the busy Newport. I went back to the Marble house around 3PM.
The Christmas decoration at the Marble House in Newport Rhode Island
The Marble House is as equally lavish as The Breakers. Smaller in size by square foot but as intricate as the other one. Each room was marvelous that I caught myself shaking my head multiple times. I was pleased that I made a decision to see two mansions instead of just one. It didn’t take me long to go from one room to another to view the place, and once I was done, I went to check their grounds; caught some nice photos of the New England ocean views while the sun was setting.
I went to Main Street and shoot more photos of the Marina and another Lobster trap tree Newport style that I found. When darkness set in, I went back to my hotel. Too tired to explore by myself, I decided to get a room service for dinner and signed off for the night.
The Goat Island Lighthouse in Newport, Rhode Island during blue hour.
At my last day in Newport I woke up before sunrise and drove around the area again. I took another shot of the lobster trap tree before I sped my way to shoot the Goat Island Lighthouse during blue hour in Goat Island. Then I headed to First Beach, took more photos of the sun rising, then to the wildlife refuge(in the hope to see one, but unfortunately there was none) for the last time. Then I went back to the hotel and rest briefly, packed my belongings then started my drive to Connecticut in Milford.
Top: My Connecticut family- Maureen,Jessie and AJ
Bottom L-R: MY Yale friends- Liz and Danielle. Lucia and I before we parted in 34th St.
Almost three hours later I arrived. I spent the rest of my day with my bestfriend Maureen. She wasn’t home when I arrived, she was walking her dog, so I went to the nearby Pho house and ate lunch. When I came back, she’s back too. Since her house was having a major installation of her furnace, she couldn’t leave. We spent most of the day chatting and laughing. When evening came, I decided to leave to get some rest.
On my last day I went to Walnut beach to take photo of sunrise by the pier. Walked around its shores and do some reflecting. When done I went back and I got myself ready and packed. Before heading to the airport, I met with my friends and former colleagues at Yale and also caught up with them. Sad that there were only 3 of the original crews that were still there. I then finally headed to the airport.
It’s always a bittersweet to leave CT; it has a soft spot in my heart since this is where I started. On the other hand, I am excited to see my family!
Where do you think I should spend my holiday next year?