Two weeks ago I attended a wedding in Paris. This is no ordinary wedding that I usually attend. This one has soft spot in my heart for two reasons: one its an LGBTQI wedding- it is not every often I go to one; two and most importantly, it is my niece’s.
I would like to think that Julie Ann is a very private person. But when it comes to matters of family and the heart, she would call and ask about my thoughts. After all, she once told me that she does look up to me- that I inspire her. I never knew exactly when she came out; what I remembered was that one day she was talking about something that pertained to her celebrity crush, and when I asked her if she’s gay- she laughed. I knew then she is, but I didn’t pursue asking. I wanted her to come out on her own time and her own terms- when she’s ready and comfortable.
I don’t know much about Geenee. It was only recently that I see her when Julie Ann would FaceTime me. From how I perceived her, she’s timid. She is the exact opposite of Julie Ann. But meeting her personally two days before the wedding, I could say she is the sweetest. She is very accommodating and friendly- in a shy way.
I can’t remember exactly when Julie Ann came out, but I remembered during my last visit in Paris in spring of 2018, I learned that Julie Ann ended her then relationship. And shortly after, met Geenee. As an uncle I have the best intention for my niece so I advised her to take things slowly, discover the fun of getting to know each other, and enjoy a company of being stress-free. I gave the same advise- I’d like to think- I practice with my husband, “not sweating the small stuff.” Fast forward to four years later, here they are tying the knots.
The wedding day itself was beautiful. It was a perfect Paris weather- not too hot (yet as it was 930AM) and not cold; just a gentle breeze in that morning. The sun was up when we left the hotel to the city hall. Our party was greeted by both of the brides’ closest friends and families. For sometime we gathered, took photos, and got to introduce to some of the brides entourage until we proceeded to the hall and waited for the ceremony to start shortly after. Obviously the ceremony was in French, and was a lot different from what I normally attend in the US or in the Philippines, but indeed beautiful. I spoke briefly with Julie Ann before the wedding rites, and asked if she’s excited- she said she’s rather nervous. I told her that it was normal and it will go away. There were few funny incidences during the ceremony that I thought were good stories to tell once the wedding was over. Over all, It was an intimate occasion with a light touch of comedy.
The reception was equally as great as well. There was a mini-processional and attestations at the hotel courtyard aside from the official ceremony at the city hall. Then came the fun part when the bridesmaids, brides’ men and the brides were introduced. The TikTok dance coming out was totally fun! For a moment I felt I was really old! My wedding was totally different from this, considering it isn’t even ten years ago. There were a lot of dancing and drinking after the food and desserts were served. I am truly happy that Julie and Geenee were surrounded of people that support and matter to them most on their special day. I am so proud of what these two ladies put together to make their wedding day great and memorable.
As a parting wisdom I read them my favorite verse- 1 Corinthians 13:
Love is patient, love is kind. It does not envy, it does not boast, it is not proud. It does not dishonor others, It is not self-seeking, it is not easily angered, it keeps no record of wrongs. Love does not delight in evil but rejoices with the truth. It always protects, always trusts, always hopes, always perseveres.
I can only hope that these words guide them through as they begin a new life together.
Congratulations to the newly weds!
